I seem to be typing a lot of crappy things in my blog. So let�s be more constructive today!!
Beware. This entry is rather long.
Firstly been a girl, you have to take care of your personal appearance, your weight and the way you carry yourself. You have to trim your eyebrows, shave your armpit hair, and sometimes shave your leg hairs and all those unnecessary hair. You also have to put on makeup and what nots. You have to do all this to look good and to be attractive.
Periods. You will have to bear with the menses cramps, pimples outburst, and mood swings. Not forgetting you have to go to toilet every 2 hours or so to check for leakage and change pads.
Having a good figure is obviously what every girl dreams of! However if you have too big or too small a boobs. Some nicknames will just be stuck to you. Imagine how hurting that would be?
Boyfriends expect girls to be gentle, shu nu, cute, lovable. In a relationship, girls are always describe as very sensitive creatures, they demand a lot of attention. Sometimes guys say girls are too DEMANDING. They often say girls are always late for dates, always so unreasonable, always cry over little things. Girls always complain and whine. However, guys do that too. Because if they feel not satisfied, they will whine and complain about the imperfection.
In a marriage, if the husband goes out and fools around with other women, the wife could either suffer in silence or make a scene in the public (and earn herself the title - Shrewd). When a couple is having sex, the guy gets the fun while the girl gets the pain. So how wonderful can that get? And after that, if the girl gets pregnant, she has to go through the 9 months of pain. Imagine the morning sickness, labour pain, depression and the thought of been round and fat after you gave birth. And the husband will complain how ugly you looks like after giving birth (and got an excuse to find another woman)
Household chores. We need to do that from day to night. From young to old. In the older days, girls are viewed as useless things, as one day they would be married out. So they are not given education and are sent to work in the field from dawn-to-night. Nowadays, there are still parents who believe boys are better than girls.
Wives have to tahan scoldings, naggings and complains from their husbands and children.
Been a girl isn't as wonderful as what you thinks.
So guys please treat your sisters, mothers, girlfriends and girl classmates better.
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However, been a guy isn�t much of an easy thing too. Imagine the responsibility handed down to you. Guys are expected to take care of the family, go out and earn money. Guys should be the one wooing the girls. Guys should be more tolerant with girls. Guys should be the one paying for the date.
Guys get name-callings too. When you are more to the feminine side; you are stuck with the name �Sissy�. Guys should be tough. Guys should dress and walk like a man. Guys should be able to take risk. Guys should not cry (bullshit).
See how many �should� guys have to handle?
Of course there are lots more things guys are facing. For example like they have the urge to see a naked woman, so they resort to porn. When they want to have sex, but couldn't they resort to masturbating. When they are told their sperms are not healthy, imagine the embarrassment.
Been a guy isn't that easy too.
So girls please treat your brothers, fathers, boyfriends and boy classmates better.